12 Sexy Christmas Gift Ideas Your Man Secretly Wants

Are you looking for some sexy Christmas gift ideas for your man? Or perhaps you’re looking to spice up this holiday season for the both of you? Finding some good sexy Christmas gift ideas for boyfriends and husbands can be really difficult, especially if this isn’t the first time you’re searching for a sexy Christmas gift for him. One thing to remember though, I can guarantee that almost all boyfriends/husbands simply enjoy the company of their girlfriends/wives, but it’s still nice to give him something extra and special for Christmas.

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Before we dive into this list, I want to point out that if there are any gifts on this list (or anywhere else) that you don’t feel comfortable giving, then don’t do it. No gift is worth giving if you’re uncomfortable giving it. That being said, let’s dive into some sexy Christmas gift ideas your man secretly wants.

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1. Love Games for Couples

We’ll start relatively friendly. Love Battleship is a fun and romantic bedroom game for couples. Perfect to play on special occasions or on a date night. I like this game for many reasons and one reason is the fact that there are easy game rules with watercolor illustrations which makes it easy to understand what the card’s activity is. But the biggest reason why I like this game so much is because it is truly a gift for both people in the relationship. You will both enjoy this game and I truly believe this can help some couples to reconnect with each and perhaps fall back in love a little.

2. Kama Sutra Book

This might be one of my favorite gifts on this list. As you can tell from the cover of this book, it’s a book about sex positions. If your boyfriend (or perhaps both of you) are tired of the same old sex positions you always do, why not spice it up and try some new ones? I also like this book because it does not only give you suggestions on different sex positions but it also give you ADVICE on how to kiss better, how to use a specific position better for more pleasure etc. Who doesn’t want to brush up their skills in bed? Imagine the new levels this could take you and your partner’s sex life to.

3. Sex Pillow

This kind of goes hand-in-hand with the Kamasutra book. If you do decide to try some new exciting sex positions then you might not be as flexible (I’m sure as hell am not) as some positions requires you to be. Or requires your man to be for that matter. Enter the sex pillow! This pillow (as you can tell from the image) allows you to try new sex positions by offering extra support wherever needed. I think this might be the most underestimated gift among all of the gifts here. Because on the outside it just looks like a weirdly shaped pillow but I’m convinced it can allow you to conquer new grounds in your sex arena.

4. Sexy Lingerie

This is probably the most classical sexy gift to “give” your boyfriend for Christmas. I say “give” in quotation marks because it’s really a gift for yourself. But that doesn’t mean it’s not appreciated by your boyfriend! On the contrary, many boyfriends and husbands (if not all) would love it if their girlfriends or wives picked up some sexy lingerie and seduced him in the bedroom on during the holiday season.

5. Blowjob Token

This is such a hilarious gift that I absolutely had to include it! I don’t think you need me to explain what this gift is for but I have to be honest with you here. This is probably a gift EVERY SINGLE boyfriend or husband out there will absolutely LOVE to receive. However, if you’re not comfortable giving this gift (or any other gift for that matter) then you should absolutely not give it. It goes with out saying but I just wanted to remind you of that.

6. Blindfold

If you don’t want to get a whole new set of sexy lingerie, you can simply buy a blindfold. Don’t underestimate the simplicity of this piece of clothing. There are a lot of fun, sexy things that can come from this. I won’t ramble on for pages about the different ways you could use this but one obvious way is that you blindfold your man and then have some fun! If you’re on a budget but still want to spice it for Christmas, this is a perfect gift!

7. Sensual Massage Oil

This is another great gift. This sensual massage oil has a tropical scent to it so when you close your eyes and get your massage you can imagine that you’re on a beach somewhere just enjoying life. Jokes aside, giving (or receiving for that matter) massage to your partner is also an underestimated sensual activity to do. You are completely in control of how sexy the massage is and regardless of what the massage turns into or not, you both get to relax for a bit. However, if you are looking for something more sexual, I would then recommend you to get this Personal Lubricant. We all know what it’s for and it can be a nice way to spice things up.

8. Vibrator

Vibrators seem inevitable when talking about sexy gifts for your man, doesn’t it? It absolutely is, that’s why I have three different vibrators to talk about here.

For Men: The first vibrator for men is a vibrating masturbator which is kind of self-explanatory. However, what I like about this vibrator is that you can control it through an app on your phone. This means that you (the girlfriend/wife) can connect your phone and control his pleasure. Now that’s a fun & sexy game!

For Couples: The second vibrator is clearly for the man to use, but I labelled it “for couples” because he can use it during sex as well. The vibration will stimulate both him and you which makes it a couples vibrator in my book. What I also like about this is that it has dual stimulation for him, both in the front and back which a lot of men enjoy but very few admit.

For Women: The third and final vibrator is technically for women but I would argue that it can be used together with your partner during sex. So, it gives a dual stimulation, the pleasure shared during sex and the pleasure of the vibrator stimulating your g-spot and clitoris. In other words, more pleasure for the people and that’s always appreciated!

9. Sex Swing

If you really want to up your game, you should go for this sex swing! You hang this by a door and then you can enjoy sex with your partner from new heights. Some perks with this are that it looks really complicated but it’s not. You literally place it over a door and close the door and it’s ready to go. The greatest benefit here is that you can try new sex positions but it also gives extra support so neither of you have to carry the other person to actually perform the position you want to try. Also, if your boyfriend or husband is someone (or you for that matter) who has a fantasy of sex against the wall, this makes it really easy to fulfill that fantasy. Or if your boyfriend or husband has a fantasy of getting strapped down to the bed, check out this Bed Restraints Kit.

10. Bath Salt

For most people, the holiday season equals cooler weather which tends to increase the demand for taking warm baths. Taking a warm bath is lovely in itself, however, it can also be quite sexy and sensual to take a bath with your partner. Adding a soothing bath salt from Kama Sutra will also nourishe your skin while you enjoy each other. Both your skin and your partner will thank you, a true win-win!

11. Melting Chocolate

This is not really sexual as it is used for chocolate fountains or fondue. But you got a use your imagination! My thoughts for this melting chocolate are to first use it in a chocolate fountain and then buy some strawberries and enjoy it with your partner which can be incredible romantic (and delicious) or you can use the melting chocolate in a more sexual way. That is, cover your naked bodies in and then enjoy each other! You might not want to cover you and your boyfriend entirely in chocolate from head to toe but I think you know some body parts that could be fun to cover in chocolate. If you do want to buy the melting chocolate to use in a chocolate fountain, you can find it HERE and some bamboo skewers HERE.

12. Sex Coupons

The final sexy Christmas gift idea I have to offer you is this sex coupon book. Similar to the Blowjob token above, this sex coupon book includes 24 sex coupons where 8 of them are coupons for blowjobs, another 8 of them is for “Choose a Hole” (I’m sure you can use your imagination to figure that one out) and the remaining 8 coupons is for a “Surprise” which leaves you to come up with a sexy surprise that he can cash in. Even though this gift idea is quite funny, I do love it for several reasons. Not only is it a very cheap gift to give your partner if you’re on a budget but it’s also probably the most appreciated gift you can give him. Finally, I can’t help thinking that the coupons are a total of 24 which means that you could get him this book as an advent calendar where he can cash in one per day during December as a fun and sexy way to countdown to Christmas.

Take Away

There you have it! My list of 12 Sexy Christmas Gift Ideas Your Man Secretly Wants. I think both people in a relationship can enjoy the gifts listed here but I’m still curious to see what other sexy gifts are out there! If you know of any other sexy Christmas gift ideas to give your man, please leave a comment below.

Looking for More?

Do you want even more hot & sexy gift ideas for Valentine’s Day? Check out my friend Danielle’s Valentine’s gift ideas for couples post that gives you 25+ more ideas!

Looking for more sophisticated Valentine’s Day gifts? Check out my 11 Valentine Gift Ideas for Your Boyfriend.

Are you celebrating Galentine’s Day with your girlfriends? Check out my 13 Galentine Gift Ideas for Your Girlfriends post.

Perhaps you’re looking for some Valentine gift ideas for her? In that case, check out my friend Jaishree’s 14 Unique and Classy Valentine’s Day gifts for Her post.

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